From Handshakes to Hospitality: Mexico Etiquette Made Simple

When you stay in one of our Puerto Morelos vacation rentals, part of the fun is experiencing the local culture up close. But be aware — what feels “normal” at home can sometimes come across differently here in Mexico. No worries though — we’ve put together a few tips to help you fit right in and skip those awkward “oops” moments.

Cartoon showing correct and incorrect hand gestures in Mexico.

That little “OK” circle with your fingers? Here it’s not OK. In Mexico, it’s actually a rude gesture. Same goes for curling your index finger with your palm facing up — it doesn’t mean “come here,” it means something you definitely don’t want to be saying. Instead, flip your hand palm-down and wave your fingers toward you. Easy fix.

Pointing out someone’s height? Use just one finger. A flat hand is only for describing the size of animals.

Greetings Are a Big Deal

If you go straight to business without a proper hello, you might come across as cold. Always start with a “Buenos días” or “Buenas tardes,” and if you’ve met before, ask about family or how they’re doing. 

And here’s a small but golden rule: 

Never toss papers on a table. Hand them directly to each person — it shows respect.

Cartoon of a man tossing papers on a table during a business meeting.

When Food Is Offered, Say Yes (Even a Little)

Hospitality here is serious business. If someone offers you food or a drink, it’s best to accept at least a taste. Refusing completely might feel impolite to your host. Meals are often shared family-style, so think less “order your own entrée” and more “pass the tortillas.”

Cartoon of a Mexican family sharing a meal at home.
Meals are often shared family-style in Mexico, and saying yes to food offered shows respect and appreciation.

And when you arrive somewhere, don’t just wave at the room — greet people one by one. A quick handshake (or cheek kiss with friends) goes a long way.

Bottom Line

Cartoon of Mexican and Caucasian families celebrating together outdoors.
Visitors and locals alike can enjoy Mexico more deeply when they celebrate traditions together.

Mexicans are warm and welcoming — and they don’t expect you to be perfect. But a little effort goes a long way. Learn the basics, show some respect, and you’ll not only avoid misunderstandings but also connect on a much deeper level with the people you meet.                            

More Than Bilingual: We’re Bicultural Too

At Abbey del Sol, we know the little cultural details can make a big difference in your stay. That’s why our staff isn’t just bilingual — we’re also bicultural. We understand both worlds and are always here to help our guests navigate local customs with ease. So while you enjoy your Puerto Morelos vacation rental, you can relax knowing you’ve got a team ready to make your experience smooth, respectful, and truly memorable.